Archive for January, 2010

28
Jan

To Be Reconciled

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I have been thinking about this term “reconciliation” quite a lot lately.  The dictionary defines it in several ways, depending upon the situation you are in.  For instance:
1 – the reestablishing of cordial relationsthis can be in business, in the work environment or other areas of society

2 – Reconciliation in family law is the process by which parties who are separated resume their marital relationship and cohabitation. Reconciliation is changing for the better a relationship between two or more persons. – This can be in family, in church, in associations.

3 – Reconciliation, a theological term, is an element of salvation that refers to the result of atonement. Reconciliation as a theological concept describes the end of the estrangement, caused by sin, between God and humanity. … – This is what the Scripture admonishes us to do – be reconciled to God!

In the studying of this term and its implications, and as I have been thinking on it, I find that the most clear definition is this: a change from enmity to friendship. It is mutual, i.e., it is a change wrought in both parties who have been at enmity. God and man were “at enmity” with each other because of man’s disobedience. When Jesus Christ came on the scene He “reconciled” God and man.  This is something that has already been accomplished!  Paul puts it this way :

“You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless,
Christ died for the ungodly.
Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man,
though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die.
But God demonstrates his own love for us in this:
While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

Since we have now been justified by his blood,
how much more shall we be saved from God’s wrath through him!
For if, when we were God’s enemies,
we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son,
how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life!
Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ,
through whom we have now received reconciliation.”
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Romans 5:6-11

So then, as far as God is concerned, we have already been reconciled!  We have already been given the forgiveness of our sins!  God made it happen!  What we must do now is simply receive it by faith! God has taken the first step.  He has made us right with Him through His Son, Jesus Christ.  The problem we have is that many don’t see it.  The Greek word katallage means exchange – restoration to favour.  God desires all of humanity to be reconciled to Him 2 peter 3:9&version=NIV" target="_blank">(2 peter 3:9&version=NIV" target="_blank">2 Peter 3:92 peter 3:9&version=NIV" target="_blank">) and that is why He allowed Jesus to die on the cross.

We have been given the privilege of not only being reconciled to God, but of joining with Him in a ministry of reconciliation!  What an opportunity!  We can exercise the grace of God by forgiving the enmity and division that may have been thrust upon us and restoring the unity of Spirit and the joy and peace that comes from healing the division.  WOW!  If we can only grasp this concept as believers, what a real change we can make in this broken world we live in!  Think about it!

20
Jan

What Is Motivation?

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I’m sitting here in Chicago, Illinois listening to the wind howl outside my hotel window.  I am here getting ready for part of my “new gig” as a presenter for Quest Education Systems.   It is a great opportunity and I am loving getting to meet new people and especially working with teachers.

One of the tracks that I present on is “Motivating Disinterested Students.” I deal with the disinterested, uninterested and “at risk” students that have become so common in classrooms across the country.  Teachers are looking for any means that will help to reach these kids.  And, I get to share tools and strategies with them.

So, this morning I am thinking about motivation; just what is it – really?   The dictionary defines it as: “The psychological feature that arouses an organism to action; the reason for the action.” Then it gives all sorts of explanations of the psychology behind it such as: In psychology, motivation is the driving force behind all actions of an organism. Motivation is based on emotions, specifically, on the search for positive emotional experiences and the avoidance of negative ones, where positive and negative are defined by the individual brain state, not by social norms: a person may be driven to self-injury or violence because their brain is conditioned to create a positive response to these actions.

What I believe is that motivation is hope.  Hope is not based on something you see, but it is a guarantee of what is to come.  When we motivate someone, we are giving them the hope of a better future, a vision of what can be when they are willing to work a little bit harder or attempt to change the way things are now.  Motivation is the desire to succeed and the belief that you can! It works on faith – just as hope does.  I like the way hope was described once – hope stands on the shoulders of faith and looks for what is to come.

How do we motivate someone?  That is the key question.  I believe that first we must find out where that person is in their thinking process.  What is going on in their lives?  Why have they lost their hope and motivation?  What is their desire?  In order to do this we must get to know that person in an intimate way.  We must build relationship with them and gain their trust so they will be willing to share their thoughts and desires with us.  That takes time.

Many teachers feel so pressured by course requirements and schedules, paperwork and meetings that they don’t believe they have time to invest in this personalization with students, especially one who is unengaged and unmotivated.  This is a problem.  There are those who are willing to make that sacrifice required to reach out to these kids and make an impact on them.  Still there are others who need to be “motivated” themselves because they have lost hope.

I like what Paul says about hope in the Scripture:  ” But hope that is seen is no hope at all.  Who hopes for what he already has?  But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.” – Romans 8:24-25

Teaching takes time!  Motivation takes time and effort!  Sometimes the results are not readily evident.  We must wait patiently for them to come.  In the end we discover that all we did to get that student to be motivated is well worth the investment.  What does it take to motivate?  Here is an acrostic I came up with that describes the process.  I use the term IMPACT.

Invest time, energy and resources.
Motivate – find out what their interest is and use that as a tool.
Persevere – It is a long process and sometimes very hard.
Applaud – Encouragement is key!  Cheer on small successes!
Communicate – Make sure there is a clear understanding of goals and the process (steps) to reach them.
Test and turn loose – There must be a testing to determine if achievement has been made.  There must be a time of sending forth, turning loose so they can fly on their own.

We live in a time when many have lost their motivation and desire to make a difference.  My prayer is that more people will awaken to the fact that there is a generation of young people that are looking for something to believe in.  they want a better future but some just don’t know how to go after it.  That is where we come in as teachers.  We must show them how – sometimes even if they don’t seem to really want it.

1
Jan

Welcome 2010!

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What is it about a New Year? We pause to remember what has passed, excitedly speculate about what is to come and celebrate into the wee hours of the morning this “yearly” transition. As I looked at some of the celebrations going on via television, I marveled at the extravagance and expense that was taken to acknowlege this “passing” of time. I was amazed to see Dick Clark still alive and kicking as he showed up on his annual TV show Dick Clark’s New Year’s Rockin’ Eve which first began in 1972. It turns out that he is only 80 years young! (I thought sure he was old as Methuselah by now.) It was great to see him up and co-hosting even though he had a stroke in 2004.

In this time we live in when so many are out of work and out of time, losing their houses and jobs, wondering what they will do next, I find it ironic that so much money is spent on trivial events such as the changing of a calendar. But, I guess it is like a steam valve that has to let off the pressure on occasion to keep the boiler from exploding.

Regardless, I think it is fitting for us to look back and evaluate what has come and gone, not to dwell on it but to learn from it and move on.  I hope I can be as Paul and hold to this “But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 3:13-14

If we dwell on the past, we get stuck in it and become depressed. If we fail to learn from our past, we are doomed to repeat the mistakes we made. We must move forward or we become stagnant and die. Changes come and go. That is part of life. That is what makes life exciting and worth living – change! If you are unhappy with the way things are, do something to change them. Don’t sit around cursing the darkness, light a candle, turn on a flashlight, build a fire and illuminate and dispel that darkness! For those of us who are believers we must not get stuck in a critical, condemning mode. We have been given a commission, a directive by the One who died and rose again so that we might enjoy life to its fullest!

“You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden.
Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl.
Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.
In the same way, let your light shine before men,
that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.”
Matthew 5:14-16

What about this New Year? I see it as a time for new beginnings. It is a time to make changes, for the better not worse. It is a time to repair and to build. It is a time to grab on to new ideas and new vision for a better life than I have know in the past. It will be a time of change, real change, positive change, and that will be great!

I leave you with one of my favorite Psalms that gives wise counsel on how a man can truly be successful:

“Blessed is the man
who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked
or stand in the way of sinners
or sit in the seat of mockers.
2 But his delight is in the law of the LORD,
and on his law he meditates day and night.
3 He is like a tree planted by streams of water,
which yields its fruit in season
and whose leaf does not wither.
Whatever he does prospers.
4 Not so the wicked!
They are like chaff
that the wind blows away.

5 Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment,
nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous.
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For the LORD watches over the way of the righteous,
but the way of the wicked will perish.”
Psalm 1 (NIV)

HAPPY NEW YEAR!


Tony Wilkerson